The implications for society with the COVID-19 epidemic

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Since the Black Death decimated upwards of 75 million in the 14th century, no plague has plunged humanity into crisis as has COVID-19. I am including the Spanish flu of 1918, which infected 500 million—a quarter of the world’s population at the time. The deaths from the flu, whose estimates range were upwards of 17 to 50 million, were in large measure the result of factors such as malnutrition and overcrowding in medical camps. 1918 was the final year of the Great War. A 2007 study indicated that, were it not for the effects of the war, the death toll from the flu would have been no greater than in previous years.

“It’s the economy, stupid” is a phrase we’ve all heard. The reason the new Coronavirus has shut down so much of the world’s commerce, placing whole societies in lockdown, is that like the Black Death, COVID-19 is a sickness that stalks the world silently. People can infect us and not even realize they carry the virus. In such a world, no one is safe. Consider who has been stricken by this virus. Film stars and famous individuals all the way up to members of Congress in the US, and in Britain Prince Charles and Prime Minister Boris Johnson, illustrating how rank or privilege cannot protect us.

The loneliness people are experiencing—including the many dying alone in hospital without even a family visitor—is real. In Britain, only five people can even attend your funeral at the graveside if you die. As the article I share below points out, many of us have no idea how to deal with the loneliness we feel at such a time—especially as it seems to go on and on.

Life is going to change—but how is up to us and the lessons we are willing to learn.

I want you to consider that what people are going through is in itself representative of the society we have created by allowing commerce to increasingly be our central purpose in life. The thing we treasure most and can’t wait to get back to has become our Achilles Heel.

Society wants to return to normal, which entails further promotion of the idea that we are all separate individuals. A tragedy of this sort comes not out of nowhere, but is aided and abetted by our collective consciousness. It represents the isolated way in which so many of us live—the mentality in which the impetus for such things as hoarding, and to hell with others, finds its roots. The fact that so many are a single paycheck off disaster in the richest country in the world, and where so many sleep on the streets, is proof enough of how inadequate our approach to life truly is.

I have said for years now that disease isn’t always just physical, but that it often involves a spiritual aspect. This is a time to let what we are going through speak to us of the isolated society we have created, one in which it’s “every man or woman for themselves.” This is the real sickness of our diseased society.

How will we come out of what we are going through? Allow me to share with you an insight from Italy, which has been hit very hard by COVID-19. Life is going to change—but how is up to us and the lessons we are willing to learn.

The acclaimed Italian novelist Francesca Melandri, who has been under lockdown in Rome for almost three weeks due to the COVID-19 outbreak, has written a letter to fellow Europeans “from your future”, laying out the range of emotions people are likely to go through over the coming weeks.

“I am writing to you from Italy, which means I am writing from your future. We are now where you will be in a few days. The epidemic’s charts show us all entwined in a parallel dance.

We are but a few steps ahead of you in the path of time, just like Wuhan was a few weeks ahead of us. We watch you as you behave just as we did. You hold the same arguments we did until a short time ago, between those who still say “it’s only a flu, why all the fuss?” and those who have already understood.

As we watch you from here, from your future, we know that many of you, as you were told to lock yourselves up into your homes, quoted Orwell, some even Hobbes. But soon you’ll be too busy for that.

First of all, you’ll eat. Not just because it will be one of the few last things that you can still do.

You’ll find dozens of social networking groups with tutorials on how to spend your free time in fruitful ways. You will join them all, then ignore them completely after a few days.

You’ll pull apocalyptic literature out of your bookshelves, but will soon find you don’t really feel like reading any of it.

You’ll eat again. You will not sleep well. You will ask yourselves what is happening to democracy.

You’ll have an unstoppable online social life – on Messenger, WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom…

You will miss your adult children like you never have before; the realisation that you have no idea when you will ever see them again will hit you like a punch in the chest.

Old resentments and falling-outs will seem irrelevant. You will call people you had sworn never to talk to ever again, so as to ask them: “How are you doing?” Many women will be beaten in their homes.

You will not understand if witnessing the birth of a new world is more a grandiose or a miserable affair.

You will wonder what is happening to all those who can’t stay home because they don’t have one. You will feel vulnerable when going out shopping in the deserted streets, especially if you are a woman. You will ask yourselves if this is how societies collapse. Does it really happen so fast? You’ll block out these thoughts and when you get back home you’ll eat again.

You will put on weight. You’ll look for online fitness training.

You’ll laugh. You’ll laugh a lot. You’ll flaunt a gallows humour you never had before. Even people who’ve always taken everything dead seriously will contemplate the absurdity of life, of the universe and of it all.

You will make appointments in the supermarket queues with your friends and lovers, so as to briefly see them in person, all the while abiding by the social distancing rules.

You will count all the things you do not need.

The true nature of the people around you will be revealed with total clarity. You will have confirmations and surprises.

Literati who had been omnipresent in the news will disappear, their opinions suddenly irrelevant; some will take refuge in rationalisations which will be so totally lacking in empathy that people will stop listening to them. People whom you had overlooked, instead, will turn out to be reassuring, generous, reliable, pragmatic and clairvoyant.

Those who invite you to see all this mess as an opportunity for planetary renewal will help you to put things in a larger perspective. You will also find them terribly annoying: nice, the planet is breathing better because of the halved CO2 emissions, but how will you pay your bills next month?

You will not understand if witnessing the birth of a new world is more a grandiose or a miserable affair.

You will play music from your windows and lawns. When you saw us singing opera from our balconies, you thought “ah, those Italians”. But we know you will sing uplifting songs to each other too. And when you blast I Will Survive from your windows, we’ll watch you and nod just like the people of Wuhan, who sung from their windows in February, nodded while watching us.

We’re in Italy, and this is what we know about your future. But it’s just small-scale fortune-telling. We are very low-key seers.

Many of you will fall asleep vowing that the very first thing you’ll do as soon as lockdown is over is file for divorce.

Many children will be conceived.

Your children will be schooled online. They’ll be horrible nuisances; they’ll give you joy.

Elderly people will disobey you like rowdy teenagers: you’ll have to fight with them in order to forbid them from going out, to get infected and die.

You will try not to think about the lonely deaths inside the ICU.

You’ll want to cover with rose petals all medical workers’ steps.

You will be told that society is united in a communal effort, that you are all in the same boat. It will be true. This experience will change for good how you perceive yourself as an individual part of a larger whole.

Class, however, will make all the difference. Being locked up in a house with a pretty garden or in an overcrowded housing project will not be the same. Nor is being able to keep on working from home or seeing your job disappear. That boat in which you’ll be sailing in order to defeat the epidemic will not look the same to everyone nor is it actually the same for everyone: it never was.

At some point, you will realise it’s tough. You will be afraid. You will share your fear with your dear ones, or you will keep it to yourselves so as not to burden them with it too.

You will eat again.

We’re in Italy, and this is what we know about your future. But it’s just small-scale fortune-telling. We are very low-key seers.

If we turn our gaze to the more distant future, the future which is unknown both to you and to us too, we can only tell you this: when all of this is over, the world won’t be the same.”

by Francesca Melandri

The question is, will we emerge from this crisis with a more isolated mindset, or will we grasp the spiritual lesson of our oneness as a species and change the way our world operates? Things will never be the same as they were. Which way we bounce—toward more isolation, or toward a society in which the world’s countless blessings are shared more evenly? COVID-19 is our chance to create the kind of world that, deep in our hearts, we all long for.

Blessings of Love, Light & Clarity Ahead
Dr. Habib Sadeghi

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Dr. Sadeghi
Dr. Habib Sadeghi is the founder of Be Hive of Healing, an integrative medical center based in Los Angeles. He specializes in multi-disciplinary treatment for chronic illnesses that include osteopathic, anthroposophical, environmental, psychosomatic, family, and German new medicine, as well as clinical pharmacology. He served as an attending Physician and Clinical Facilitator at UCLA-Santa Monica Medical Center and is currently a Clinical Instructor of Family Medicine at Western University of Health Sciences. He is the author of two books, The Clarity Cleanse: 12 steps to finding renewed energy, spiritual fulfillment and emotional healing, and Within: A spiritual awakening to love & weight loss. Dr. Sadeghi is also a regular contributor to Goop, CNN, BBC News and the Huffington Post, and is the publisher of the health and well-being journal, MegaZEN. Read biography 
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